Attitude is EVERYTHING…

If you were to eavesdrop on a group of men talking over dinner or drinks, it would be no surprise that the topic of their discussion will almost always lead to talking about women. And just like any standard girl bonding session, men also talk about a list of traits, qualities, and characteristics they look for in a woman.

Of course, there’s the usual rants and raves about various “hot” women they come in contact with on a daily basis, but then a name of someone truly amazing will come up and suddenly you’ll notice a universal agreement around the table . . .

This woman seems to be the MOST FASCINATING woman everyone has ever encountered.

She’s not FHM sexy, nor is she Victoria’s Secret voluptuous, yet there’s just something about her that makes men in awe of her to the point that the only words they can muster saying are aaahh . . . and Wow . . . . and ooohh . . . .

So what makes this woman so amazing and fascinating?

I’ll answer that question in a minute, but right now I want you to do a little research first.

I want you to go spend a day watching movies or TV shows that involves some of the most desirable and fascinating women in the world.

Then I want you to go buy some men’s magazines as well while you’re at it to give you a rough idea on what SEXY is all about.

FHM, Maxim, Zoo Weekly, whatever.

Now I want you to hit Google and YouTube to further observe some of the world’s most powerful women.

Can you pinpoint what sets these women apart from other women?

Do you notice how they aren’t afraid to speak their mind?

Do you notice how they seem to just fit perfectly into the world? It’s almost as if they do everything with a natural grace?

Do you notice how they just enjoy their lives without caring on what people think about them?

Do you notice how they just glow with confidence? They’re comfortable wherever they are, it’s almost as if they do everything without effort. Pay attention to their posture, voice tone and body language . . .

Do you notice how their infectious smile simply just melts people’s hearts?

Now do you know what makes these women the most fascinating and amazing women in the planet?

What do you think gives them that X-factor?

If I had to describe the one single thing that makes women attractive to men, it would be this.

It’s their “KICK-ASS ATTITUDE.”

The key towards having a kick-ass attitude in dating is not changing what you’re doing, but changing your attitude towards what you’re doing.

You don’t have to be 6″6 with a voluptuous figure and silky smooth blonde hair to be considered an amazing woman. You don’t need to starve yourself to be considered “beautiful.”  It doesn’t even matter if you’re one of the most accomplished and brilliant women in the planet nor if your bank account is overflowing with dosh. As long as you believe in yourself, that should be enough.

Even if you’re not as pretty as the girl next to you, as long as you have the better attitude then you’re the better woman.

If you’re a woman with a kick-ass attitude . . .

You never SELF- DEPRECIATE because you know that your external behaviour is a direct reflection of your attitude.

You’re not socially inept nor too available.

You don’t do the chasing, they chase you.

You don’t just settle for men who’s not really that interested in you.

You never EVER beg.

You don’t get too attached too early on.

You’re not pessimistic by nature.

You’re not needy or clingy.

You engage his mind and heart rather than what’s hidden underneath his pants.

You’re not a desperate and pathetic emotional cripple.

You emerge out of any painful and disconcerting situation seemingly unscathed with your hair in place and your makeup intact because you realise that these setbacks are absolutely vital for your development.

You don’t “lose it” when your relationship fizzles out, instead you LIVE through it to fight another day. You simply just accept the fact that life surprises you in the way that it does and there’s just nowhere to go but forward. So Instead of bawling your eyes out in the bathroom, you buy a hot dress and start hitting the dating scene again.

Bottomline?

Attitude is CONTAGIOUS. If you develop a kick-ass attitude, men around you will also automatically pick-up the vibe unconsciously and they’ll realize that you’re different from the rest of the pack, that you’re one of a kind.

If it’s the standard attitude of most women to just patiently wait for men to make the first move, then I suggest you keep away from that ancient attitude because you’re a 21^st century woman! So instead of waiting till the cows come home, drop him some subtle hints so that he “gets it” and so that you can encourage him to make a move on you. But don’t make it easy for him either, instead, make him work for your number. You tease. You bust his chops. You speak your mind. You mess with his head a little.

Become a woman with one hell of an attitude and I guarantee that guys just won’t be able to resist you.

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