Hey dude … What’s wrong with you??

by Chris Fox on July 03, 2009. Posted in Dating Tips Men. 1 Comment

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All too often, men encounter that ‘one-of-a-kind’ woman in their lives. This woman is fun and carefree . . . she knows what she wants in life . . . she’s successful in her chosen field . . . and most importantly; she’s unique because she quite simply just GETS you.

I’m sure you’ve encountered one at some stage in your life right?

She’s the most gorgeous creature you’ve ever laid your eyes on . . .

Thinking about her can put a smile in your place any given moment of the day . . .

You can talk to her about absolutely anything . . .

Every single time you look at her the world seems to stop spinning . . .

Bla, bla, bla. And so on and so forth.

Bottom-line? She’s who you perceive as “the one”.

She’s just an exceptionally fascinating woman you can’t get enough of. A woman you feel you could possibly see yourself growing old with. And even though you’ve just met her just recently . . .

You can’t help it . . . You’re just compelled to CONFESS to her how much you love her.

You want to tell her how much you worship the ground she walks on in more ways than one. And it has only just been the SECOND date.

Daym! That’s gangsta!

Did you just take an advice from chapter 5 of Steve Urkel’s book on ‘Dork dating 101?’

REALITY CHECK: While you think you’ll be saying something like, “I’ve never met anyone like you, I think I’ve fallen for you, bla, bla, bla . . .”

What she’s actually going to hear is, “I am a sissy. I am your slave. I am willing to lick your feet for a glimpse of your smile. I’m not a challenge anymore. You can cheat on me all you want and I’ll still take you back with a smile . . .”

I may sound cold-hearted, but that’s the cold, hard truth man. So GET WITH THE PROGRAM.

Sometimes when a man wants a woman SO BADLY, every part of his being gets involved in his “ultimate” quest to win her heart. This inevitably leads to decisions based more on “emotions” rather than on rational thinking. That’s why it’s really important that you gain the ability to control your emotions. Or at least, appear to be in control because once you give in to emotions you can lose yourself.

Never allow your “feelings” to get the best of you because the result is an automatic FAIL. Sure, there might have been times in the past when men have confessed their feelings to a woman at an early stage and she felt the same way, but that’s very “RARE”. That’s like finding a needle in a haystack.

It actually takes years of practice to master your emotions, but once you get to the point where you are able to control them then I bet you that you’ll notice a considerable progress in your game.

Don’t get too sappy too soon, she doesn’t make or break your happiness. For goodness sake you just met her, so get a grip!

Just chin up, chest out, take a cold shower and CHILL OUT.

Please, just do it man. It’s for your own sake.

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One Response to "Hey dude … What’s wrong with you??"
Diego said on July 3rd, 2009 at 1:39 pm

Point taken.

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