No matter what the situation is, whether you just met the guy or you’re on your first date, you have to remember to just be yourself.
Don’t tense up. And don’t do a hundred weird little things to give him the impression that you feel nervous around him or you’re not really being yourself.
Stop smiling nervously.
And stop agreeing with his opinion ALL THE TIME.
If you’re guilty of doing any of these in the past, can you please slighty lift your chin up and NOD.
Yes, that’s right you’re doing it . . . you’re nodding. Good.
Now I want you to BITCH SLAP that forehead of yours and yell “d’oh!”
Sorry to sound so harsh, but I felt like I just needed to give you a wake-up call just then.
Just relax girlfriend.
Acting all nervous and tense can instantly drive the guy running the other end faster than you can say “I haven’t been laid in months!”
And please, PLEASE don’t you ever go daydreaming about a fantasy love affair with the man in front of you whilst you’re still talking to him. This is what a lot of women do on the first date, and this is why a lot of women FAIL.
Stop daydreaming about you two rolling in the sand . . .
Gasping for breath . . .
His manhood longing to be free . . .
Your hands running over his warm yet firm washboard abs . . .
Daydreaming is for private time. When you’re locked in a conversation – BE in the conversation. LISTEN and respond accordingly.
In addition, thinking too much about what can happen next can also detain you from the experience of being in the present. Just talk to him as if you’re talking to a friend, this’ll enable you to relax and be spontaneous.
Even if he’s as good-looking as Brad Pitt, don’t let his looks intimidate you and make you as soft as Drew Barrymore’s hindquarters.
Mess with his head.
Yep, you heard me right. MESS WITH HIS DAMN HEAD.
Bust his chops.
Tease your way into his heart.
Make it evident that you’re in control of the circumstances . . . and of yourself.
And if something goes wrong, just stay calm.
For example, you might accidentally drop your wine on his nice shirt or you might accidentally deck him square on the jaw or you might even unwittingly blab on way too much information about your quirky habits . . .
If any of these accidentally happen to you, don’t take it personally, just chalk it up as a minor slip-up and move on. Don’t worry, everyone goes through them at least once in their lives so you’re not alone.
The sad thing is, do you know what most women do when unexpected things like this happen? They usually say to themselves, ” I knew it, I blew it again. Why can’t I attract the guys that I want? Why do I have to blow it every single time? I think I’ll just be alone forever . . .”
Now you don’t want to be like that right?
Therefore, just CHARGE every mistake to EXPERIENCE.
You know where you made your mistake right? Therefore, learn from the experience and strive to do things differently with the next man you encounter.