Dating For Women
Why you STILL need to package yourself even though you’re already HOT
by Chris Fox on July 9th, 2009 · posted in Dating Tips Women · No CommentsLet me begin this post by stating a very brazen fact that women hate to admit to themselves:
“Women love to BITCH.”
Yep, you heard me right. Women love bitching about other women, that’s a known fact so don’t you deny it!
Here’s another known fact:
Women can be very competitive and territorial when it comes to their men. No surprises there! Dare to touch someone’s man and before you know it, all hell has broken loose and teeth, mascara and fake eye lashes are flying all over the place.
Bring it on BIATCH!
Here’s a typical scenario at a club or at a party. . .
Whenever a gorgeous hunk walks into a room, here’s what usually happens:
Most single, hot blooded women immediately picks up the “red light special signal” and starts checking out the merchandise.
Suddenly, thoughts like “let me check out the merchandise because I’ll be using him as a spank board later on” starts streaming down their pretty heads.
Because this guy is such a hunk, it’s a no brainer that other women will of course want to check him out. And if you’re a single, hot blooded huntress out for blood, the next thing you’ll probably end up doing is scanning the room for other attractive women to check out your competition.
Once you spot your competition, and especially if you notice that she’s hitting on your prospect, what do you usually say to yourself and to other people?
Yep, you guessed it . . . WHAT A BITCH!
Of course, it’s only normal for women to compete for the “best catch” in the room.
Now, you may be one of the most attractive women in the planet, so you’re probably quite comfortable that you can snag any man you want at any given moment. But here’s a news flash for you just in case you didn’t know:
There will always be someone HOTTER and YOUNGER out there than you are.
If beauty is all you can really offer, then you better think of something else to bring to the table – FAST.
Here’s a provocative yet somewhat profound statement I heard the other day. Let me just warn you in advance that it’s pretty full on so if you get offended don’t say I didn’t warn you . . .
“Show me a good looking woman and I’ll show you a man who’s tired of looking with her.”
Meaning: Regardless of how beautiful you are, if beauty is all you can really offer then at some stage the man will eventually grow tired of you.
OUCH.
The bare truth kinda hurts doesn’t it?
Have you ever wondered why a lot of gorgeous women out there still sometimes dress so seductive or so flashy?
Or have you ever wondered why some of the most gorgeous women you see out there still go to the greatest lengths to further improve their beauty?
That’s because in reality, they’re somewhat insecure of the fact that someone more gorgeous and younger is out there. Which is quite inevitable of course.
Therefore . . .
You have to spruce yourself up and highlight your good points to your utmost best every time you walk out of your door.
Make sure that you pick out the right outfit that compliments your figure. Revamp your hairstyle and put on just the right amount of makeup, make sure that it’s applied in a way that will entice a man to your finer points.
PACKAGE YOURSELF.
This can put you ahead of your competition.
Now you may have the wit, intelligence and personality to go along with your looks, but you still have to effectively package yourself if you want to get noticed and approached by the man you desire.
Big corporations for example are very much aware of the power of packaging their products so that their brand appeals to their target customers.
So what about you? What does your personal brand look like?
Keep in mind that your overall appearance and the clothes you choose to wear will help to determine your own, personal brand that’s why you need to take care of this very important detail in your life. You need to distinguish yourself from other women by being you, and letting your uniqueness stand out.















